exceptions
1.  crime-fraud exception: if communication made in furtherance of aiding, committing, planning crmie/fraud
2.  civil proceedings btwn spouses:  by or on behalf of one spouse against another;
A. ex. in divorce case,
B. custody cases,
C. will contest if one spouse died and someone claiming under will (through deceased spouse)
3.  crime against spouse or minor child
A. conduct must be a crime
B. against a person (not property)
C. person is spouse or any minor child or member of HH of either spouse
*includes civil cases* (assault)
4.  commitment or com